I will miss you

Fallen in love would be quick & Time together always short,
When I'm away on trip & not around my love...I will miss you :)

I miss seeing your face light up, As your eyes meet mine;
I miss seeing your soft smile, Especially when I am the reason;
I miss seeing you at platform waiting for me, As you make me feel warm in the cold air;

I miss the feeling of your arms around me, As you hold me tight;

I miss your lips at my ear, As you whisper ‘I love you’;

I miss your caring & holding my bag, As you are the 1st person ever do it without I ask;

I miss your tolerant of my carelessness, As I feel like a spoiled girl;

I miss your special designed tartoo, As it is commiting 'Love Forever';

I miss having you close to me, And not ever ever & ever letting go;
I miss everything about you, You mean the world to me.

30岁前的女孩应明白的21件事

QUOTE:
1、不要以为三十岁离你还很遥远。当我二十岁时，曾经把三十岁看成一个遥远的未来，但现在回首一望，十年如一瞬间，虽整日碌碌而不知所为，时间却飞逝而去。我想当一个人的生命终结之时，回忆自己的一生时也会有同样的感觉。二十岁到三十岁，是一个人为自己的事业打基础的黄金年华，应当时刻警醒自己：三十岁而立，到三十岁时能否“立”起来？　　

2、23岁之前，请记得，爱情通常是假的，或者不是你所想象的那样纯洁和永远。如果你过了23岁，那么你应该懂得这个道理，又也许你要用一辈子来明白这个道理，但这样太悲哀了，希望您能尽快明白吧。　　

3、吃饭7成饱最舒服。对待男友最多你只能保持在3成。　　

4、30岁之前请爱惜自己的身体，前30年你找病，后30年病找你。如果你过了30岁，你自然也会懂得这个道理。（当然无论您是哪个年龄段的，都请爱惜身体，身体健康最重要哦）　　

5、事业远比爱情重要。（男女同理）如果说事业都不能永恒，那么爱情只能算是昙花一现。拥有事业的女人还怕没男人追求吗，要相信即使没事业无聊的男人也会不请自来的。　　

6、不要轻易接受追求你的男孩。男追女隔座山。如果你很容易就陷进去，你会发现你会错过很多东西，失去很多东西甚至最宝贵的东西，比如：青春啊……就让那些男人觉得你高不可攀吧。　　

7、请你相信，能用钱解决的问题，都不是问题。有钱有男人，没钱也有男人，那么男人更不是问题，那么别急着找男人。　　

8、请永远积极向上。每个女人都有她可爱的地方，但是最不可爱的地方只有不积极面对生活，希望您最好不是因为男人而如此，这样最不值得。　　

9、不要连续2次让同一个男人伤害。好马不吃回头草，是真理。如果认真考虑过该分手，那么请不要做任何舍不得的行动。　　

10、如果你和你前男友能做朋友，那么你要问自己：为什么？如果分手后还是朋友，那么只有2个可能：你们当初都只是玩玩而已，没付出彼此最真的感情。或者：必定有个人是在默默付出无怨无悔！　　

11、永远不要相信男人在恋爱时的甜言蜜语。都说女人爱听甜言蜜语，其实没本事的男人才会说甜言蜜语，反之是你对他说了。因此只当是耳旁风吧。　　

12、请不要为自己的身材或者相貌、身高过分担心和自卑。人是动物，但是区别于动物。先天条件并不是阻挡你好好生活的借口。人的心灵远胜于相貌，请相信这点。如果有人以相貌取人，那么你也没必要太在意。因为他从某种意义来讲，只是只动物。你会跟动物怄气吗？　　

13、失恋时，只有2种可能，要么你爱他他不爱你，或者相反。那么，当你爱的人不再爱你，或者从来没爱过你时。你没有遗憾，因为你失去的只是一个不爱你的人。　　

14、请不要欺骗善良的男孩。因为这个世界上，善良的男孩几乎绝种。　　

15、不能偏激地认为金钱万能，至少，金钱买不回你的青春和付出的感情。　　

16、请一定要有自信。你就是世界上一道最美丽的风景，没必要在别人风景里面仰视。　　

17、受到再大的打击，只要生命还在，请相信每天的太阳都是新的。　　

18、爱情永远不可能是天平。你想在爱情里幸福就必定是要伤心的。　　

19、如果你喜欢一个认为别人应该对他好的gg，请尽早放弃。没有人是应该对一个人好的。如果他不明白这个道理，也就是他根本不懂得珍惜。　　

20、不要因为寂寞而找bf，寂寞女孩请要学会品味寂寞。请记住：即使寂寞，远方黑暗的夜空下，一定有人和你一样，寂寞的人不同，仰望的星空却是唯一。　　

21、任何事没有永远。也别问怎样才能永远。生活有很多无奈。请尽量充实自己，充实生活。请善待生活、善待自己和家人。

Learn to be tough...

Writting this in my msn topic:

'Silly Strata + Long Wkd Party Time + Angle&Demons ING = Exhaused But Still Happy '

To be a traditional chinese, since I was a little girl, have been told to be gentle/in the middle of the road and cabability with standing for the difficulties is always the 1st qualification of a great person. But sometimes, in this western society, this theroy just doesn't work, things have to be spoken out & have to draw concern parties attention so you won't stay in a loose position forever. Here much appreciate 2 of my female managers to teach me on these, allow me have the power to argue with starta over hrs.

Remember this day, consider it as a milestone, 1st time with complaining so hardly & insist with my points, Well done & so proud of myself now!

三十岁之前不必在乎

放弃：
当新的机会摆在面前的时候，敢于放弃已经获得的一切，这不是功亏一篑，也不是半途而废，这是为了谋求更大的发展空间。
失恋：
不是不在乎，是在乎不起。爱情如果只是一个过程，三十岁以后，可能更有能力，更有资格。
漂泊：
漂泊不是一种不幸，而是一种资格。当然，漂泊的不一定是身体，也许只是幻想和梦境。
失业：
三十岁之前，就过早地固定在一个职业上终此一生，也许才是最大的不幸。失业也许让你想起埋藏很久而尘封的梦想，也许会唤醒连你自己都从未知道的梦想。
评价：
我们最不应该做出的牺牲就是因为别人的评价而改变自我，因为那些对你指手画脚的人自己也不止他们遵从的规则是什么。
幼稚：
不要怕人说我们幼稚，这正说明你还年轻，还充满活力。成熟和幼稚是对一个人最大而无当、最不负责任、最没用的概括。那些庸人，绝不会有人说他们幼稚。
失败：
有人说过，一个人起码要在感情上失恋一次，在事业上失败一次，在选择上失败一次，这样才能长大，不要说失败是成功之母那样的老话，失败来得越早越好，要是四十岁之后再经历失败，很可能就来不及了。
错误：
这是年轻人的专利。
代价：
不是不计代价，而是要明白做任何事都要付出代价。
失意：
过分在乎失意的感受不是拿命运的捉弄来捉弄自己，就是拿别人的错误来惩罚自己。
缺陷：
也许你个子矮，也许你长的不好看，也许你的嗓音像唐老鸭……那么你的优势就是你不会被自己表面的浅薄的亮点所耽误。少花一些时间，少走一些弯路，直接发现你内在的优势，直接挖掘自己深层的潜能。
稳定：
三十岁之前就在乎稳定的生活，那只有两种可能，要么就是中了彩票，要么就是未老先衰。
压力：
中年人能够承受多大压力检验的是他的韧性；年轻人能承受多大压力焕发的是他的潜能。
薪水：
只要是给人打工，薪水在高也高也高不到哪去，所以在三十岁之前，机会远比金钱重要，事业远比金钱重要，将来远比金钱重要。
对于大多数人来说，三十岁之前干事业的首要目标不是挣钱，而是挣未来。
存款：
年轻人都知道钱是有生命的。机会这么多，条件这么好，可以拿钱按揭，花明天的钱，做今天的事；也可以拿钱去投资，拿钱去“充电”。钱只有在它流通的过程中才是钱，否则只是一叠世界上质量最好的废纸。
[启示]
在乎，是一种拿不起，放不下的心态；它的反面不是放弃，而是一种人生的大智慧。
Source: http://i.chinaren.com/group/msg/13636/122838795558217

WHAT IS LOVE ...

When a GIRL is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind।
When a GIRL is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply।
When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering how long you will be around।
When a GIRL answers " I'm fine " after a few seconds ... she is not at all fine.
When a GIRL stares at you ... she is wondering why you are lying.
When a GIRL lays on your chest ... she is wishing for you to be hers forever.
When a GIRL wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered.
When a GIRL says " I love you " ... she means it.
When a GIRL says " I miss you " ... no one in this world can miss you more than that.

Life only comes around once make sure u spend it with the right person ....

Find a guy ...
who calls you beautiful instead of hot.
who calls you back when you hang up on him.
who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.

Wait for the guy
who ... kisses your forehead.
Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.
Who holds your hand in front of his friends.
Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.
Who turns to his friends and says, " That's her!!

Everyone has their life, but would you say YES to SOLO???

These days, not everyone believed that love should be a warm family, two mutual trust, and lasting happy with children...There is one life style becoming so popular - SOLO, some couples are living seperately & claiming they are AvAiLaBlE, whereas they do have their certain someone special, would you blame?

One of my friends, a cute goodlooking guy, made friend with a rich girl whose family had a lot of money. He told his mother that not to expect any wedding ceremony because he had no idea of how long he would stay with that girl or how many other girlfriends he was having at the same time, the only thing he would care about is fun & short-term enjoyness, of course no worry lifestyle, he would keep fishing, no one could ever be his special one, at least not right now. Another friend of mine said he had a lover who was just a junior student in college. If one of them made a boy/girlfriend, the other will leave the lover and go for a new relationship. I felt really sad and angry when I heard this style of emotion, but they are really happening just beside us & becoming so common. What would I say? I am totally out-of-date!!!

Although I am generation Y, I am still can't understand so-called SOLO & kind of hating these behaviours, NO believed in true love but acting the goat, NO concetion of responsibility in the dictionary any more, people just concerned how to consume and enjoy & the most important thing nowadays becomes worshiping money and freedom, sharing happy, fresh, exciting and beautiful things with the sweethearts, which all go far more ahead of responsibilities. We could image, after the enthusiasm, really nothing left - someone may say that they are still friends after friendly breaking up, but would you believe that in the deep bottom of heart, there is never a place that may hurt a little in the quirte night? Never been a dark memory that make you rush to get rid of your mind? Would you say you never regret about lossing that special someone because you were not care? Well, I would say thats horrible to me, I couldn't resist asking' where is the moral?' Haha, someone might say 'who hell cares?' Wow, so hurt, especially from those ones you love/care.

True love should share every emotion, including happyness and sorrow,exciting and boredom, freshness and weariness, lovers should company each other forever no matter what difficulties they are facing. I believed that true love will eventurally end up with a happy marriage, experience the traditional virtues, it's fully embody the responsibility, which should include tolerance, love, understanding, mutual help, obligation, etc., for long term, planning the future, caring parents, teaching children, even not easy, not beautiful sometimes, but thats the way what life should be, having a thankful heart to enjoy every process, when we get old, we could say, I have experianced all that life could give me & appreciate.

As a person who advocate the traditional virtues, it is just so sad when relationship becomes kind of needs rather than true love. Pls make the life be life, that is: Let's share happiness and woe with our lover instead of avoiding and escaping the obligation and burden.