These days, not everyone believed that love should be a warm family, two mutual trust, and lasting happy with children...There is one life style becoming so popular - SOLO, some couples are living seperately & claiming they are AvAiLaBlE, whereas they do have their certain someone special, would you blame?
One of my friends, a cute goodlooking guy, made friend with a rich girl whose family had a lot of money. He told his mother that not to expect any wedding ceremony because he had no idea of how long he would stay with that girl or how many other girlfriends he was having at the same time, the only thing he would care about is fun & short-term enjoyness, of course no worry lifestyle, he would keep fishing, no one could ever be his special one, at least not right now. Another friend of mine said he had a lover who was just a junior student in college. If one of them made a boy/girlfriend, the other will leave the lover and go for a new relationship. I felt really sad and angry when I heard this style of emotion, but they are really happening just beside us & becoming so common. What would I say? I am totally out-of-date!!!
Although I am generation Y, I am still can't understand so-called SOLO & kind of hating these behaviours, NO believed in true love but acting the goat, NO concetion of responsibility in the dictionary any more, people just concerned how to consume and enjoy & the most important thing nowadays becomes worshiping money and freedom, sharing happy, fresh, exciting and beautiful things with the sweethearts, which all go far more ahead of responsibilities. We could image, after the enthusiasm, really nothing left - someone may say that they are still friends after friendly breaking up, but would you believe that in the deep bottom of heart, there is never a place that may hurt a little in the quirte night? Never been a dark memory that make you rush to get rid of your mind? Would you say you never regret about lossing that special someone because you were not care? Well, I would say thats horrible to me, I couldn't resist asking' where is the moral?' Haha, someone might say 'who hell cares?' Wow, so hurt, especially from those ones you love/care.
True love should share every emotion, including happyness and sorrow,exciting and boredom, freshness and weariness, lovers should company each other forever no matter what difficulties they are facing. I believed that true love will eventurally end up with a happy marriage, experience the traditional virtues, it's fully embody the responsibility, which should include tolerance, love, understanding, mutual help, obligation, etc., for long term, planning the future, caring parents, teaching children, even not easy, not beautiful sometimes, but thats the way what life should be, having a thankful heart to enjoy every process, when we get old, we could say, I have experianced all that life could give me & appreciate.
As a person who advocate the traditional virtues, it is just so sad when relationship becomes kind of needs rather than true love. Pls make the life be life, that is: Let's share happiness and woe with our lover instead of avoiding and escaping the obligation and burden.
10 May 2008
FINANCE & SAVING
How many times have you heard people say: "I wished someone had told me that when I was young?" Well, here is what all young people and for that matter, most people, who feel uncomfortable about not being more financially comfortable should read. Follow these rules and you'll put yourself in the frame for a comfortable life. You might even wind up rich!
Flick the debt
Simply, you need to become a savvy investor and consumer. You have to avoid being embarrassed by too much debt and you need to be driving with a seatbelt in the fast lane of money.
What do you want?
Success handling money gets down to learning a handful of rules, which will determine whether you end up well-off or in the poor house. Stop for a moment and imagine what you want for yourself as you get older. A car? A house? A happy family? A comfortable life? A wealthy life?
Set for life
Let me give you a tip. The people who have new cars when they are young end up driving bombs later in life. And those who go for a second-hand car when they are young and invest their money often wind up with a house, a new car and overseas holidays later in life.
I recently met an officer in the army who is in his 30s, and because he has lived in army-supplied housing, he used the tax system to help him buy not one, not two, but five houses, which are all rented out. Apart from having a job he loves, he is set for life! Here are rules to practice and get rich by.
Rule one
Write down your goals - if your goals are not written down they are not on the planet!
Rule two
Next, do a budget. I know it sounds boring, but it will tell you an exciting story. It tells you how much you can save and here is my advice - it's probably the best money advice you have heard - pay yourself first.
Rule three
GST your life and take 10% of your pay each week and bank it or invest it, don't spend it! Grow it and it will make you rich. Have a look at these figures - let me put your life to money.
You will work for at least 40 years. Imagine if you average $50,000 a year for your working life, which means you save 10% or $5000 a year.
Over 40 years that gives you $200,000 but if you received say 7% a year return, you would wind up a millionaire. That's the power of compound interest.
Rule four
Have a bank account that your pay goes into and another to pay the 10% into. This should pay a higher interest rate. Right now you can get 8% on bank accounts, but many people are lucky to get 4% on their money! Why? They don't know or won't keep the rules.
As your money builds up you can put it into even better investments, such as a blue chip share portfolio or a great investment property.
Rule five
Make sure you always ask about the extra fees and charges that go with bank accounts, mobile phones and credit cards, which can add up to a big bill each year.
Rule six
Don't become a credit card patsy. Go to www.cannex.com.au and check it out!
You will see some cards charge 17-20% while others are 11-12%. Some charge an annual fee of $35 while others slug you for more than $100. Some give you 55 free days where you don't have to pay back the money, while others hit you from day one. We all use credit cards, so become an expert!
Rule seven
Do a bit of homework on your bills. Live by the motto that every dollar you give away through being undisciplined and slack to others makes you poorer and them richer.
Rule eight
Ask dumb questions to make you a smart consumer and investor. Never pretend you know, simply ask and keep asking until you understand. It's only dumb to pretend you know and end up losing money big time.
Rule nine
Become a tax expert. Some people say it sounds boring, but how can saving money be boring? How excited are you when you find a $100 bill in the street? Being a tax expert will give you lots of $100 bills!
The final rule
Rule 10 says surround yourself with a good accountant, financial adviser, lawyer and even a business coach. This will reduce the chances of making bad decisions and you can benefit from experts' knowledge. They can help reduce your tax, show you smart investments and possibly help you into a business, which can be the source of great wealth. It will cost you but these people, if they are good, save you a lot more than you ever pay them! Here's an example that proves the point: a couple with a $100,000 loan over 25 years wanted to pay it off early, but couldn't afford to pay more each week. So their adviser told them to put their $2000 tax return into their repayments in one go and this cut the loan down by nine years and saved $45,000! The minority in this world end up financially strong and they are the strong people who have kept these rules.
Flick the debt
Simply, you need to become a savvy investor and consumer. You have to avoid being embarrassed by too much debt and you need to be driving with a seatbelt in the fast lane of money.
What do you want?
Success handling money gets down to learning a handful of rules, which will determine whether you end up well-off or in the poor house. Stop for a moment and imagine what you want for yourself as you get older. A car? A house? A happy family? A comfortable life? A wealthy life?
Set for life
Let me give you a tip. The people who have new cars when they are young end up driving bombs later in life. And those who go for a second-hand car when they are young and invest their money often wind up with a house, a new car and overseas holidays later in life.
I recently met an officer in the army who is in his 30s, and because he has lived in army-supplied housing, he used the tax system to help him buy not one, not two, but five houses, which are all rented out. Apart from having a job he loves, he is set for life! Here are rules to practice and get rich by.
Rule one
Write down your goals - if your goals are not written down they are not on the planet!
Rule two
Next, do a budget. I know it sounds boring, but it will tell you an exciting story. It tells you how much you can save and here is my advice - it's probably the best money advice you have heard - pay yourself first.
Rule three
GST your life and take 10% of your pay each week and bank it or invest it, don't spend it! Grow it and it will make you rich. Have a look at these figures - let me put your life to money.
You will work for at least 40 years. Imagine if you average $50,000 a year for your working life, which means you save 10% or $5000 a year.
Over 40 years that gives you $200,000 but if you received say 7% a year return, you would wind up a millionaire. That's the power of compound interest.
Rule four
Have a bank account that your pay goes into and another to pay the 10% into. This should pay a higher interest rate. Right now you can get 8% on bank accounts, but many people are lucky to get 4% on their money! Why? They don't know or won't keep the rules.
As your money builds up you can put it into even better investments, such as a blue chip share portfolio or a great investment property.
Rule five
Make sure you always ask about the extra fees and charges that go with bank accounts, mobile phones and credit cards, which can add up to a big bill each year.
Rule six
Don't become a credit card patsy. Go to www.cannex.com.au and check it out!
You will see some cards charge 17-20% while others are 11-12%. Some charge an annual fee of $35 while others slug you for more than $100. Some give you 55 free days where you don't have to pay back the money, while others hit you from day one. We all use credit cards, so become an expert!
Rule seven
Do a bit of homework on your bills. Live by the motto that every dollar you give away through being undisciplined and slack to others makes you poorer and them richer.
Rule eight
Ask dumb questions to make you a smart consumer and investor. Never pretend you know, simply ask and keep asking until you understand. It's only dumb to pretend you know and end up losing money big time.
Rule nine
Become a tax expert. Some people say it sounds boring, but how can saving money be boring? How excited are you when you find a $100 bill in the street? Being a tax expert will give you lots of $100 bills!
The final rule
Rule 10 says surround yourself with a good accountant, financial adviser, lawyer and even a business coach. This will reduce the chances of making bad decisions and you can benefit from experts' knowledge. They can help reduce your tax, show you smart investments and possibly help you into a business, which can be the source of great wealth. It will cost you but these people, if they are good, save you a lot more than you ever pay them! Here's an example that proves the point: a couple with a $100,000 loan over 25 years wanted to pay it off early, but couldn't afford to pay more each week. So their adviser told them to put their $2000 tax return into their repayments in one go and this cut the loan down by nine years and saved $45,000! The minority in this world end up financially strong and they are the strong people who have kept these rules.
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